10 Crucial Topics Every Couple Should Discuss Before Getting Married

10 Crucial Topics Every Couple Should Discuss Before Getting Married

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๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ต ๐—š๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ, ๐——๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—จ๐—น๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ ๐—ฅ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—Ÿ๐˜๐—ฑ, ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜†๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ.

Marriage is a process that may be as simple or challenging as you both wish!

Beginning with the journey of marriage is an exciting moment filled with love and excitement, but it is also a time for realistic talks and careful thinking. Saurabh Goswami, Director of Ultra Rich Weddings Ltd., emphasized the significance of having open and honest talks about essential tasks before getting married. Here are some key topics that every marriage should have:

1.     Living Arrangements: Clarify your choices for post-marriage living arrangements, such as a joint family or a nuclear home, to avoid future disputes.

2.     Relocating: Discuss your desire to relocate for potential employment and how it corresponds with both partners' professional goals and personal preferences.

3.     Household Chores: Make a fair division of domestic duties to ensure that responsibilities are evenly distributed and that both spouses have time to rest and unwind after a hard day.

4.     Family Planning: To align expectations and avoid misunderstandings, have an open and honest discussion regarding your parenting goals, including when and if you both intend to raise a family.

5.     Conflict Resolution: Discuss how you handle disputes and conflicts, as well as healthy communication strategies for resolving difficulties and strengthening your relationship.

6.     Financial Arrangements: To promote financial harmony and stability, openly address financial obligations and arrangements, such as budgeting, savings, and contributions to household costs.

7.     Past Attachments: Appreciate and share lessons from previous relationships to foster trust and understanding, allowing both parties to handle any obstacles with empathy and support.

8.     Avoidable Triggers: Identify potential conflict points or sensitive issues and explore techniques for avoiding or politely addressing them in order to preserve a healthy relationship.

9.     Vacation Preferences: Talk about your ideal vacation places, activities, and travel preferences to create pleasurable and memorable experiences that appeal to both partners' interests.

10. Common Hobbies: Research into common hobbies, interests, and activities that you both love to foster connection and provide opportunity for quality time and bonding.

 Couples who engage in these important talks may deepen their relationship, increase mutual understanding, and set the groundwork for a healthy and meaningful marriage. Remember that open communication, respect, and compromise are essential elements for a successful and enduring relationship.